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Always remember. by Snuf-Stamps Always remember. by Snuf-Stamps
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it's in fact great if you care about others. try to help them, lend them a shoulder or anything like it.
but.
never forget yourself.
your health is also important. you are allowed to share your feelings too. don't think of yourself lower as the other.
it's like always. don't take it to either extremes. (;

Please favourite it if you plan to use it. Thank you in advance!
Stamps (c) Snuf-Stamps a.k.a. Shark-Hive
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Wild--Star Featured By Owner Mar 18, 2017  Student General Artist
using
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OllieKyusu Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2016
I used to be like this, caring about others but not myself, the consequences were destructive, but I know how to balance the two now :D
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Randamu-Chan Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
;U;
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CharismaClock Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2015   General Artist
Using!:D (Big Grin) 
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Killuanatsume Featured By Owner May 2, 2014
I tried...
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LovablyAwkward Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I have so much trouble with this. I put everybody else's needs and concerns above my own and then when it isn't returned, I turn incredibly bitter. Perhaps if I payed more attention to myself, bitterness wouldn't exist so badly!
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schmetterlingmx Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2014
Wonderful stamp!

I've tried for years to follow this, but no success til now, however i don't regret giving everything to help others, til i can't no more. I would surely regret not doing it this way. 

I know i still have to think a lit' bit about me, because withouth health i wouldn't be able to help more people and animals. ;)
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BladeWithin Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I need to follow this~ I adore helping others!!~ Awesome stamp!
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Squirtlespio Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Mmm....my best friend is like that. She'll do countless great things for others, but when it comes to someone doing something great for her she'll get shy about it and feels guilty. She's too modest. It's not so much that she's too proud to accept a gift/favor, but the guilt of someone going out of their way to do something nice for her. I hate that! I don't want her to feel guilt just because I'm trying to do something sweet for her...

But if nobody does anything nice for her, it breaks her heart and makes her feel used. I think it's because she's been taken advantage of countless times before, so she's used to the feeling :(

*heavy sigh* What should I do? I'm at a loss...
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schmetterlingmx Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2014
If i were in the same city as your friend, i would really like to meet her, because i'm exactly like her, reading your post, it's like reading how i am, how i act, and how i feel when most people i know only use me, ignore me when i'm not more needed, and stab me in the back as payback.

Being like her, i would expect from my friends, support and that they really care above all, when you show her these 2 important things as often as possible, i'm almost sure it could make a big difference in her everyday life. ;)
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Squirtlespio Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
She seems a lot happier to me nowadays :3 I guess finding dA really turned her life around
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schmetterlingmx Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2014
Even when i don't have the pleasure to meet her, I'm happy to know she's doing much better now. :)
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duskmalfoy Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2013
im like that without the guilt part :|
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Squirtlespio Featured By Owner Aug 12, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I'm sorry to hear that .w.
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duskmalfoy Featured By Owner Aug 12, 2013
:stare: 
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Squirtlespio Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
:O
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Amerikat Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I may be a little late, but, if you still don't know what to do- she sounds exactly like me. c':
The most that you can do is just show her that you love and care about her, and that you're there whenever she needs you- to me, that always makes me happiest. c: A little bit of support can go away, and it might make her feel a little bit better about herself.
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Squirtlespio Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I really appreciate the advice :3 it's frustrating knowing I can't do much, but I'm willing to help her in any way I can. I supposenthemsame could be said to you; if you ever wanna talk, I'm here ^~^
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Amerikat Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It's no problem >u< she's lucky to have a devoted friend like you c:
sldkfj that's very sweet of you, thank you, I'll keep that in mind ;u;
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Squirtlespio Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Friggin spacing issues on iPads >~<
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TheStarOfLuck Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I don't forget about myself, but everyone else forget about me. :/ Oh well. :D
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SuperSarcosmic Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Student General Artist
Love this, it's a great reminder to myself. Thanks for making it.
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:iconbrightcynder:
Brightcynder Featured By Owner May 12, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aww, this is a very sweet and optimistic stamp :3
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samusmmx Featured By Owner May 8, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
That stamp is so true. c:
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Homssutotuli Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2013
True. Better to take care of yourself too or you won't have power to help others either.
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Pawprint212 Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
>~<
Sometimes I want to do stuff for me.
But I feel bad. :(
So I let the person have the swing, ect.
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JLD816 Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I need to remember this, I always forget to care about myself. I'm too busy caring about others.
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DreamTheBunny Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
so true!!! i totally agree with :iconktensley: below me
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KTEnsley Featured By Owner Nov 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
And if you don't care for yourself, eventually you won't be able to care for others either. :ohnoes:
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Nov 15, 2012
exactly!
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xXHeartlessGirlXx Featured By Owner Aug 23, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes, don't focus on other people for so long you find out, you went without food for almost thirty two hours. -_-

Great stamp, I shall now fave, and fave I shall~
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2012
Well that's quite a long time without eating.

thank you.
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Contraltissimo Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2012
I love this stamp so much. :aww:

Very sound advice. :clap:
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2012
aw thanks (:
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SassyRaptor Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2011  Student Filmographer
So true. :)
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2011
(:
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KuchikiYorume Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
Well, to be honest, I'm not really worth that much, so...
I mean, I've fallen in love with someone and I'd give him everything. If it made him feel better to beat me senseless, fine. If I could help him or care for him in any way, it wouldn't matter to me how much damage I take.
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2011
we're all worth something.
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KuchikiYorume Featured By Owner Oct 9, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
Yeah, perhaps, but... I believe I'm worth at least a little less than most people...
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Oct 14, 2011
then we both have the same problem.
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lollirotfest Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
I have this empathy complex that can put me through a lot of pain some times. I struggle with this, very much so.
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2011
hmm, what is this complex exactly? I've never really heard of it. or maybe never heard someone saying it like this.
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Na-Mori Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Very true!
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2011
(;
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:iconthrontre:
Throntre Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2011  Student Writer
Wonderful message! Thanks for making this stamp!
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2011
thanks! you're welcome (;
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ShadOBabe Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
THANK you saying this. I know how to take care of myself, but I meet so MANY kids that are always concerned about what everyone else wants that they never consider what they want, and they just end up depressed.
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2011
you're welcome.
yeah.
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Sue-Zan Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Wonderful.:clap:
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Snuf-Stamps Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2011
thank you (:
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